My older female cat has not liked my male kitten and seems rather aggressive towards him. Do you have any suggestions?

I have an older cat around 11 or 12. She has not liked my male kitten that I got a few months ago. She keeps to herself and lives down in the basement because she doesn’t want to be near him. If she seems him, she growls and hisses. Do you have any suggestions?

It's understandable that you feel concerned about this. When an older cat isn't getting along with a new kitten right away. While some cats bond quickly, others may need more time, gentle guidance, and lots of patience to adjust.

To help ease the transition, we recommend allowing both cats to slowly get used to each other's scents before encouraging direct interaction. This might help reduce stress and make the process feel safer and more natural for both.

For additional support, try our NHV Matricalm supplement. It’s a gentle, herbal formula that can help soothe your older cat’s nerves and reduce feelings of agitation or anxiety. Many pet parents find it helpful during times of change or tension.

Finally, here’s a helpful article with thoughtful steps on introducing a kitten to an older cat:
👉 Change can be Pawsome!
https://nhvpethealth.com/blog/change-can-be-pawsome/

You're doing the right thing by seeking support, and with time and care, many cats do learn to live together peacefully 💚

Jul 4, 2025

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